ooooo dear

my dad just phoned me there Conversation went a bit like this

he said "whats this i have to hear your pregnant over the internet?"
i said "oh right"
he said "thanks for telling me"

and then hung up...he wasnt pleased when i fell pregnant with taylor so i can only imagine what hes gonna be saying this time.

(i have just got back in touch with my auntie and one of my cousins , on my dads side) so thats obviously where he had got it from, but i thought he`d have found out from my mum, i was reluctant to say to him after last time. so i better go phone kevin now and warn him, just incase, last time he and me dad almost had a fist fight when they met

1; because my dad used to hang out with his big brother
2; because he thought kevin was only taking me for a ride
3; they just dont like each other

so here we go again eh!!

Oh no, that's no good! Hope it all gets sorted soon for you, tell him you don't need aggro whilst preg!

ohno thats not good, i hope it gets sorted out. You dont need that do you

urgh why do parents have to be such selfish idiots, you are pregnant for goodness sake. My mum hung up on me about summers birthday and it has now been over a month since i told her i had had enough of her silly behaviour.

Let your dad get on with it elaine, if he cant be happy for you then leave him to it xxx

hope u sort it out elaine x x x its the last thing you need right now x x x

Oh no!! Ignore him if he's going to be like that.

well kevin said "och its nothing to do with him, its your life"

he sounded hurt at the fact that i didnt tell him tho, which i can understand, just wish my mum had told him tho, my aunty was a right twisted moo and probably hasnt changed so i can only guess what shes said to him

well perhaps you would have told him if he hadnt of been the way he was first time round? Dont take on the emotional guilt trips elaine, its the last thing you need

LO, what would i do without you lot eh?

max! love it!! you always tell it how it is! there aint no better way!!

Yeah, i agree with Max! Id actually call him and say it to him as well, how damn cheeky!

thats not what you want right now elaine. tell me if im prying but why didnt you tell your dad you were pregnant?

i have just had so much of it off my mum, i have zero tolerance for parents that have to be petty when ties like these you need support. It is upsetting but you have to do whats best for you and not whats best for them

Hope you get it sorted out soon Elaine x

Ellies mummy wrote:thats not what you want right now elaine. tell me if im prying but why didnt you tell your dad you were pregnant?

well after i told him last time he never said much about it and looked at me like i was disgusting and a piece of s***, then he had a fight with kevin who in his words is a "dirty old man for going with a girl of 21" (which i was at the time), we had since fallen out and havent really been the same, never spoken that much or seen much of each other because of the way he is towards the rest of the family aswell (threats etc) he is on drugs but like all addicts denies it at every turn around, i think he forgets we arent 4 anymore. he seen taylor for the first time in almost a year the other week there and smiled at her, gave her a cuddle and said how good she is at walking (my mum was quick to say "no she isnt") so he went quiet again after that, and gave her £10 to get a toy lol

he will always be my dad and i love him so much but hes a right idiot, i just dont see how he cant see what hes doing and why we cant turn to him anymore...flipping heck the water works are on...i get so angry at myself for getting so upset because its his doing and he should fix it but thats all another story lol

Aww Elaine that's so sad. Hopefully he'll sort himself out and you'll be able to rebuild your relationship before he ruins it for good. x